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June 26, 2014

Hey guys! So, last weekend I had the opportunity to speak at Camp Shetek's Ladies Camp event... which explains this mid-sentence photo that my mom snapped of me behind a podium. :) I'm sorry you have to see me looking unenthusiastic and kinda nervous, because it was such a great time and I don't think I stopped smiling all day. I got to talk about food! (you know how I love that.) I talked about the top 10 healthy choices our family makes; the things that we've learned or have put into practice in our household that really, honestly help us. It was really fun and I loved getting to chat with the ladies and my mom and sister (who made the long trip to be there) afterwards! I thought you guys might like to see my presentation also, so here are my slides and speech:

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Hi, I'm Summer Harms! (and this is my family - cue slide with our pictures on it) I get to talk to you about food today. Which I’m really excited about because I love food (obviously) and I love to cook and feeding my family is one of the biggest ways I show them that I love them. I was asked to speak about making healthy choices today, and was having such a hard time trying to nail down a particular topic under this umbrella. I just love it all! Then Grant suggested making a list of the 10 most practical, important things that we’ve learned or that I try to do for my family when it comes to food. I thought this was brilliant. I know I love hearing how other families get through 3 meals a day, so here's how we are doing it. Eating healthy is a lifestyle. And lifestyles are built on little things - the choices we make throughout the day and small changes here and there. So these are some of those little things that have helped our family, or that we’ve learned along the way as we try to be healthier eaters. I share these things not as an expert, just straight from our family’s experience, with the hope that there might be something in the mix that’s helpful to you. 







1. If there’s junk in the house, we’ll eat it. So we don’t have junk in the house. Grant helps me with this one a lot because I’m easily tempted at the grocery store and he sticks to the list. We don’t buy much snack stuff at the store because we know we can make our own snacks and treats at home. That way we know exactly what’s going into our bodies and get the most nutrients out of our snacks. (Our favorites are homemade popcorn, bananas or apple slices and nut butter, pickles, nuts, chips and guacamole, homemade muffins or cookies, or trail mix.)

2. Fats are good. And use the good fats. Our brain is 60% fat and the fats we eat strongly influence our levels of brain function, as well as cellular health. Most processed foods contain the harmful kinds of fats, while healthy types of saturated fats provide a major source of energy, the building blocks for cell membranes, vital hormones, and they help your body absorb important vitamins, including A, D, and E. Coconut oil is our favorite for cooking and baking and we love olive oil for dressings and marinades. Just a few other good-for-you fats that we like are avocados, eggs from pastured hens, and grass fed meats. I know from experience that I feel a lot better when I’m eating enough good fats. When we first started eating less processed foods and having a lot more healthy saturated fat (specifically coconut oil), I noticed that I had more energy and better mental clarity, and felt more full and satisfied for a longer time after a meal. 

3. Take a good probiotic and fermented food. Gut health is something that has been a really big deal for our family, because we’ve experienced tremendous health recovery benefits by focusing on cultivating good bacteria and forcing harmful bacteria out. You can tilt your balance toward the good bacteria simply by eating more of them, in the form of probiotics, which are live bacteria contained in foods and supplements. We take a strong probiotic supplement and also eat probiotic-rich fermented foods like sauerkraut and pickles and kombucha in order to boost the beneficial bacteria in our guts. 

4. Say no to sugar. This is another big one that has dramatically improved how I feel in terms of overall wellness. We’ve learned to stop when we’ve had too much sugar, and try to view it as a treat. We also like to use sweeteners like honey, maple syrup, coconut sugar, or even just fruit to make things sweet, instead of using sugar. These alternatives are real foods found in nature that actually contain health-giving properties, where as sugar is so ultra processed that it is stripped of any nutrients. Not only that, but it’s extremely addicting, and it feeds the bad bacteria that live in our gut. 

5. Be prepared. Have a plan for dinner- whatever that looks like at your house. At our house, we often have meat thawing in the fridge for tomorrow night’s dinner. When 5:30 rolls around, if there’s not a plan in place, it’s just way too easy to start eating whatever you can find fast. Don’t wait until you’re starving. Also, bringing snacks with you wherever you go has been a big help to us. If we have enough food with us to get by until we get home, we can avoid the drive-thru. 

6. Quality foods. We love to know where our food is coming from. We buy organic produce whenever we can, we love to hit the farmers market as much as possible, and we switched to buying local grass-fed beef without hormones or antibiotics. 

7. Don’t give up on something- and when in doubt, roast it. 
A few years ago I found out that if I cut back on sugar, everything else started tasting better. Before that time, my tastebuds were so trained and dependent on sugar for flavor that I was a really picky eater. I didn’t even realize it at the time, but as my sugar dependency went down, I was so encouraged, because suddenly I started liking so many new things! And now it’s hard for me to find a vegetable that I don’t like- especially when it’s roasted. Roasted vegetables are the big favorite at our house. So if there’s a food or meal that you haven’t liked in the past, I want to encourage you: don’t give up on it. Try preparing it a few different ways- you never know if you’ll find a new favorite. For us, that was the case with brussels sprouts. We tried roasting them one night and now we can’t get enough of them!! 

8. Read labels as you shop. If you can’t pronounce the ingredients, you should probably put it back. For me a “proper diet” means eating real food... wholesome, nutrient-dense foods that come from nature. The longer an ingredient list gets, the more likely it is to have undesirable stuff and the less likely it is to be nutrient rich. We try to buy things with as few ingredients as possible or single-ingredient food items like eggs, rice, apples, avocados, etc. 

9. Make meals that stretch.  If you make dinner big enough, you can use it for lunch the next day. This one is kind of just common sense, but we just put it into practice this past school year and it made a huge difference. At my house, especially on week days, lunch often ends up being a scavenging kind of meal, unless there is something already made. Which is why having leftovers is perfect - it doesn’t get much easier than that. And planning one big meal always beats planning 2. 

10. Have the right mindset. Know why you want to eat healthy. A healthy mindset about eating is just as important as the food you are choosing to eat - because eating matters to the Lord. Our motivation for eating well can be found right in 1 Corinthians 6:20: ”You have a body, but it is not yours. You were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” 

I loved this quote from John Piper that I found the other day about Worshipping Christ through eating.

-Don’t think worship services when you think worship. That is a huge limitation which is not in the Bible. All of life is supposed to be worship. Take breakfast, for example, or midmorning snacks. 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “Whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” Now eating and drinking are about as basic as you get. What could be more real and human?” You are always in a temple. Always worship. -John Piper

-What does worship look like when it comes to eating? It means getting the proper diet your body was designed by God to have. This is how we applaud and enjoy His design and understand that He made us stewards of these bodies. We honor Him when we take care of our bodies!

May 12, 2014

On Saturday, Grant and I celebrated 6 years as husband and wife! Praise the Lord! The day before, we received some old camp pictures from a sweet friend (who actually took this picture of us! Thank you, Kait!) and it led to us re-hashing sweet memories and re-connecting the dots of how we got together. We were amazed at how many people the Lord used to bring us together. So many tiny, intricate details that built our camp-launched connection and so many great camp friends to thank for their part in our story! (Which will continue. I know, I'm so late in writing more of it! I've been feeling really guilty about it lately, seriously. You have no idea!) Basically, I'm still marveling over it all. God is so good and His plan, so unexpected.

(above) This is one of Grant's favorite pictures of us. :)

And here are a few tidbits about our marriage, because I want to remember these little things.
  • The first thing we say when we walk in the door of our house is almost always, "I need some water!" We must be thirsty people. (and Grant might add, "Agua, por some-more.")
  • John Mayer Continuum is currently back in our car. We like to resurrect music from our past.
  • Grant often prays as we're backing out of the driveway.
  • We Amazon shop a lot.
  • And yet we both desire to live so simply. :)
  • After the kids go to bed, we try to get stuff done quick and then crash on the couch to talk, watch Jimmy Fallon videos, and eat apples and almond butter.
  • It's not uncommon for us to jokingly (but seriously) ask each other, "What are your hopes and desires and dreams for the day?" translation: What's on your to-do list?
  • We both wish we could re-experience our American History classes.
  • We both wish Chipotle and Target weren't 2 hours away.
  • We don't currently have a "hobby" together -- we have babies. :)
  • One way we serve each other lately is taking turns holding Casper or diaper-changing while the other person gets something done.
  • He dreams big and I am easily intrigued.
  • It's not uncommon for us to spend an evening looking at plane tickets and dreaming of going to sunny places.
  • It's also not uncommon for us to wish for more snow and blizzards.
  • John Piper has brought us closer together.
  • Least favorites: wasted time, dumb movies, late nights, complaining.
  • Most favorites: the sun, a good mix of work and play, growing closer, becoming better at something, finishing to-do lists, traveling, experiencing God's faithfulness.
  • Things we don't: keep secrets (surprises) from each other very well, go on dates regularly, let our calendar get too packed.
  • Things we do: want to ride Rockin' Roller Coaster at Disney World, enjoy simple, well-designed things, eat a lot of chips and salsa/guac.
  • Going to bed at the same time is a routine that's important to us.
  • Grant thrives on having someone to lead and take care of. I thrive on nurturing my people and having someone to defer to.
  • Arrested Development and Parks & Rec jokes abound at our house.
  • He's clever and innovative and full of thoughts. And I've got a good memory and am always ready with a question or perspective. Together we make great conversations.
  • We talk about things that matter on a daily basis. (Jesus, relationships, feelings, struggles, sins.)
  • We like to analyze and ponder God's Word and work together.
  • I thank Him for this. For all of this!
April 30, 2014

Jesus has been hard at work on my heart these past couple months. As spring came, so did my own awakening. This quote from C.H. Spurgeon sums it up right:

"Fair weather is smiling upon the face of the earth, and He would not have me spiritually asleep while nature is all around me awaking from her winter's rest. He bids me "Rise up," and well He may, for I have long enough been lying among the pots of worldliness. He is risen, I am risen in Him, why then should I cleave unto the dust? From lower loves, desires, pursuits, and aspirations, I would rise towards Him."

I really don't even know how best to document this transformation happening in me. So, naturally, I'll make a list. Here are just a few of the lessons and thoughts that are changing my life lately.... it would be so sweet if the Lord uses them to bless someone else in their walk with Him, and I pray that He would! But regardless, I still need to be writing them down, for my own sake.

1. My sin. I will begin at the beginning. It really all started on March 5th. On this day in history, I saw my sin. I mean, it wasn't the first occasion for that to happen, but this was different. It was nap time at our house, I went to the guest room to sit on the bed and feed Casper and I started to read my bible. Suddenly, like a grand unveiling, the Holy Spirit convicted me of sin. It was a specific sin that had been lying stagnant under the surface for years and the Lord revealed it to me in a new light.  I was deeply grieved by what I had done/had been doing. I felt the weight of my guilt. I felt the depths of His grace. I had felt them both before, but this was the heaviest and deepest (respectively) they had ever been to me. It was so hard and sad, so liberating and wonderful. My heart was broken, but bursting at the same time! All because of Jesus. I knew this revelation, this sin experience, was going to change me; it was going to unlock the dungeons of my heart and mobilize my will to fight against sin. Grant came home from work and found me still sitting on the guest bed, holding a sleeping Casper, crying my eyes out. He was so excited for me when I told him what had happened. And it was one of the best days of my life.

2. Feeling, tasting, seeing. Just moments after awakening to my sin, I went googling. I was looking up the bible verses I wanted to read for instruction and finding some articles for encouragement, and the Lord brought me right here:

"...maybe God has brought you to this point of feeling your guilt so that grace would taste sweeter than it ever has. We have to see our sin, but some of us have grown up in such goody-goody homes that we don't think we've ever done anything serious." - John Piper, emphasis mine.

The day after, I posted this photo to Instagram, to help me remember what had been done for me. There's nothing like a selfie to mark your memory. ;)


"Good hard, self-examining day yesterday. The lesson was the one that trumps all lessons: the greatness of my sin and the depths of His grace."

3. My good resolve. Just 2 days before seeing my sin, this devotional was preparing my heart. And it has left a scar on my sin attitude that, Lord willing, will not soon fade away.

"When you sit back to do nothing, you are not doing nothing. You are actively engaging your will in a decision to sit back. And if that is the way you handle sin or temptation in your life, it is blatant disobedience, because we are commanded to wage a good warfare (1 Timothy 1:18) and to resist the devil (James 4:7) and strive for holiness (Hebrews 12:14).

Part of the whole process of walking worthy of God's call is the active engagement of our will in resolving to do righteousness.

If you have lingering sin in your life, or if you keep neglecting some good deed, just because you have been waiting around to be saved without a fight, you are compounding your disobedience. God will never appear with power in your will in any other form than a good resolve that you make and keep." -from the solid joys devotional app, march 3rd 

4. The fight. This was so inspiring to me! Now that I am awake to my sin, and one in particular that I will do battle with on a daily basis, I can fight it! And how do I fight against sin? What do I do when I feel myself starting to cave to it? This tool is the first thing I turn to, because it works. And because it has become part of the way my mind moves. When I first heard it, it made so much sense. Piper's A.P.T.A.T. -- write it out somewhere, my friends. Here's the simplest explanation.

A - I admit I can't in myself do what needs to be done.
P - I pray for God's help.
T - I trust a particular promise he has given us in His Word.
A - I act on whatever God is calling me to do.
T - I thank him for his help when I am done. 

Well, these 4 items barely scrape the icing off this cake the Lord has handed me this spring. More heart issues to be shared soonish, so I'll say To be continued...


April 22, 2014

I'm writing this on the eve of my birthday, because I'm not sure if there will be time to stop and jot it down tomorrow. The night before my birthday I like to straighten the house, empty the kitchen sink, fold my clothes neatly, and generally do all the things. I think it's my attempt at a "perfect" day- where all the work is done the night before. :) Birthdays just make me want to get all my affairs in order. Speaking of which, I want to record where I'm at in life right now. A real diary entry. I like to do this every year and always hope I can think of things that I will look back on and laugh about someday. 

  • Right now I'm at the computer desk with a jar of almond butter and a banana. 
  • I'm wearing yoga pants and a zip-up hoodie because that's my uniform.
  • My hair is in a pony tail and it's the longest it's ever been! No bangs, and not really any layers. My toe nails are blue.
  • I just got done trimming Grant's neck and now he's finishing the rest of his haircut.
  • It's 8:49 and my son (3 months) and daughter (2.8 years) are sleeping. They are my job and my joy. Somedays, it's easy to forget one or the other.
  • I'm listening to a playlist that's a mix of Andy McKee, Nat King Cole, and the soundtrack from the movie Sabrina, but I've really been loving John Mayer's older albums lately.
  • Our computer is humming at the moment because we're importing a bunch of old home videos from my childhood.
  • Signs of aging: I went to Target and only shopped the kids' clothes. I take magnesium, talk about retirement funds and life insurance with my husband, and I need new bath towels. 
  • My birthday requests this year: coconut milk ice cream and a pair of jeans that fit me. Also, there will probably be a big bowl of guacamole while watching a movie with my favorite guy. 
  • Plans for the near future: buy/borrow a baby carrier, go to the dentist, hang some stuff on our walls (finally!), and support Grant through his upcoming eye surgery and the busy month of May. 
  • In the past year I think I've gotten better at: thawing meat in time for dinner. 
  • In the next year I want to get better at: trusting Him, not getting angry, not judging, world geography.
  • I feel rich when: the fridge is loaded with avocados, my husband is home and his evening is free, the silverware drawer is full of clean forks and spoons, the promises of God are proven faithful in our life.
  • Guilty pleasures: long showers, good typography, negative space, uninterrupted time to do creative things, British dramas, the dark chocolate lover's bar from Trader Joe's, Parks and Recreation, word games, coconut oil on everything, the Oscars. 
  • This is the latest picture of me. (Half of me, that is.) Casper and I took a nap together (which never happens) and I woke up first!
  • I'm currently reading 7 by Jen Hatmaker and loving it. I'm ready to start recycling and purging our house. 
  • I've started keeping a quote book and it's filling up fast. There's a lot of John Piper in it already. 
  • We don't have cable this year. And it's been great. How did we have time for it before?
  • I'm making this maple mustard chicken and these roasted Brussels sprouts for my birthday dinner.
  • We still only have one car -- the same car! It's been a blessing. 
  • About Time is my favorite recently-seen movie. 
  • We are planning on living and working at Camp Shetek again this summer! Actually, Grant will be the only one "on staff" this year, and I'll be full-time mom and wifey. 
  • And lastly, but certainly the most powerful thing to note: Jesus. He is keeping me, teaching me, loving me. He has been made more real to me in this year. I love Him better than I did before, because I see that I need Him more, and more and more. Everyday, I need Him more. Jesus, keep on making me grow up in You. Let this be a year of Your glory.   

Jeremiah 32:38-41 And they shall be my people, and I will be their God. I will give them one heart and one way, that they may fear me forever, for their own good and the good of their children after them. I will make with them an everlasting covenant, that I will not turn away from doing good to them. And I will put the fear of me in their hearts, that they may not turn from me. I will rejoice in doing them good, and I will plant them in this land in faithfulness, with all my heart and all my soul.


Happy, happy birthday to my twin sister Haley! She is my first friend and one of the greatest gifts in my life. I love every thing about this girl and am so grateful I get to do life with her.

January 10, 2014
Sorry I missed you guys yesterday. We were busy having a baby check-up and picking up some snacks for Hadley to grab for herself while I'm busy nursing a newborn. No signs of labor starting over here yet, so I'll keep right on going with our little series. You can also read getting ready for labor and birth: parts one, two, and three.

Get ready. This post is packed! I was so glad to have sisters-in-law and a handful of awesome friends to help get me ready for the reality of healing after giving birth. They shared their experiences with me and told me what their must-have items were and I am in their debt for that. Not many people will talk about birth recovery with you, or what it's really like to start nursing a baby, but let me tell you guys: it's a big deal. Let's talk! Here are the supplies I wanted to have on hand this time around to help with my postpartum healing as well as nursing + baby care. Most are things that I relied on with Hadley, but some of them are new and I'm excited to give them a try....


| 1. bath herbs for healing soaks | 2. a peri bottle for gentle cleaning up. I liked to put warm water, witch hazel, and lavender in mine | 3 & 4.  after ease tincture & arnica tablets- my midwife is providing these remedies for afterbirth cramps, inflammation, and swelling | 5-7. witch hazel, aloe vera, and favorite essential oils- for making postpartum padsicles to stash in the freezer | 8. a few Depends are great for the first day or two, and then cotton underwear in a larger size than you usually wear (black is nice) | 9. epsom salt is my go-to recovery item. I took several short epsom salt soaks (10-15 minutes) every day for the first couple weeks to help with aches and pains. It's a great way to de-stress and have a moment to yourself amidst the new-mama madness. I always add a few drops of essential oil to the tub, too. | 10. evening primrose oil for tender skin and tissues | 11. magnesium to manage high levels of stress and anxiety, constipation, aches and cramps, and to support vitamin absorption and making proteins | not pictured: placenta capsules for balancing hormones and preventing postpartum depression- my midwife is going to arrange these for me |


| 1. disposable nursing pads are such a huge part of life when I'm nursing. They are convenience itself. | 2. motherlove cream  | 3. a new swaddle we're going to try, because Hadley loved being swaddled and we wore hers out | 4. disposable diapers are super nice for the first while, before we switch to our cloth diapers | 5. a moses basket because last time I always wished I had a go-to spot to lay the baby down. I started scrambling whenever I needed to go to the bathroom or get a drink of water, so the basket is my attempt fix that, it may also turn out to be a handy spot for naps | 6. baby soap | 7. baby bum drops to make our wipes | 8. pacifier because Hadley wasn't interested in one, but I'm willing to give it another try | not pictured: a nipple shield for rough days | coconut oil for any nursing/skin/diaper issues | seamless bras (comfy and stretchy, no wires or latches) for nursing | a comfy pillow to prop my nursing arms on | a baby swing | and a big ball, to sit on while soothing a baby to sleep |

What's your must-have postpartum or nursing + baby item?
Also, I loved this post from wellness mama: make your own natural labor + birth kit.
January 3, 2014

So I don't forget what happened over Christmas Break this year, here are a few of the details...

-The Harms Farm sold. We all gathered in for one last night, one last walk-through, one last game of fumble-rooski.
-We celebrated our own little family Christmas on Christmas Adam. The morning began with warm blueberry muffins, the night ended with singing and gifts around the tree. 
-Some of Hadley's favorite gifts this year: Mickey & Minnie Mouse, a tea set, tiny farm animals, and a Curious George Memory game.
-We caroled on a school bus with the whole Harms family on one of the coldest nights of the year.
-Christmas Eve was spent at camp with the Harmses, where we ate tacos, watched a blizzard roll in, and the siblings performed a newly-written "Steve's Favorite Things" song for their dad.
-We woke up early on a blustery-snowy white Christmas morning and headed down to Nebraska.
-We discovered a new board game called Wits & Wagers with my side of the family, Hadley got to play with her cousin Davis, and Haley and I compared baby bellies. 
-We stayed up late talking, ate Valentino's pizza, nursed some swollen pregnant ankles, and Haley and I slipped away for some sister time at Target. 
-We came home. We unpacked. We sorted toys. We cleaned. We got out the baby car seat. We laundered. We visited the chiropractor. We gathered onesies and blankets. We cleaned bathrooms. We basically got majorly baby-ready. 
-Grant made 2 video productions and got to pick out a hand gun with his dad and brothers.
-Hadley had several tea parties and ate about 87 clementines.
-And I made a bunch of lists about baby things, bought a new swaddle and pacifier, and made some of our favorite things to eat, including french toast and chips and guacamole.


December 6, 2013
It is teeth-chattering cold here. We're having record low temperatures... like put plastic over your windows and hope your car starts temperatures. (We really do have plastic over all of our upstairs windows, all winter long.) When Grant went to school this morning it was -15° and the high for today is 0°. brrrr.

Whether you're pregnant or not, these record low temps induce a kind of nesting instinct. I haven't left the house in days. I'm living in my slippers, closing off unused rooms in our house (to conserve heat for more important places), sitting on the living room rug packing 50 Promises to ship to you guys, folding clean clothes and putting on more layers, balancing mugs of cocoa on my huge baby belly, and wanting to bake e v e r y t h i n g. Muffins, chocolate crinkle cookies, cranberry orange cake, peanut butter balls, etc... these are just a few of the ideas that I've been toying with throughout the day. Can't decide what to do first. Clearly, life decisions.
So, my motto for today is going to be: keep cozy and stick close to your oven. And since I'm sure it's cold where you're at too, and because it's Christmastime, you should probably join me! Turn on some Bing Crosby, tie on an apron, and let's make something! Here's a collection of some of my December favorites-- recipes and more-- from years past.

 | 1. the best granola ever, perfect for a homemade gift  2. Christmasy Clove Oranges  3. our absolute favorite King-Size Chocolate Chip Cookies  4. the original buttery and delicate Snowy Oatmeal Crispies | 

| 1. a cozy mug of homemade chai  2. a cut-and-paste December Diary  3. 50 things to do at Christmastime  4. a simple and inexpensive sack lunch advent calendar

| 1. Dirty Snowballs (peanut butter, banana, coconut awesomeness)  2. a crazy good holiday brunch menu: Gingerbread Waffles and Spinach Parmesan Flatbread  3. Christmas Tacos tradition + Heidi's Chipotle Marinade  4. Candy Coconut Sprinkles (used to make the dirty snowballs) |

| 1. Raspberry Hot Chocolate made with creamy coconut milk  2. Grandma's Classic Spritz Cookies  3.  (not pictured) a post about Holiday Hospitality  4. (not pictured) Little Women, the book and the movie | 

Have a great weekend, guys. Keep cozy and happy Christmasing! 


November 27, 2013

Wishing you a sweet Thanksgiving with your family and friends, guys! It's nice and gray and frosty here today, and all I can think about is loading up the car and getting the holiday started. Today we leave for Thanksgiving in Nebraska with my side of the family. I cannot wait to get there! Talking, eating, shopping, hanging up the stockings, and being home for the holidays; what more could I ask for? This year I'm making the green bean casserole and bringing the ingredients for Grant to make this incredible sweet and spicy kettle corn that he's been perfecting. While we're on the road, we'll probably talk about baby names and I have plans to finally start reading a birth book. I'm currently in the middle of week 34 with this babe and feeling both excited and nervous to be approaching the end/beginning.

SHOP NOTE: any orders placed in my shop over the Thanksgiving holiday will be shipped out Monday, December 2nd!


Hadley and I made a Thanksgiving garland last week, based on Casey's cute one. We didn't have pinecones and I wasn't brave enough to introduce glitter to my 2-year-old yet, but it was still fun to make. All I did was gather up some construction paper colors I liked, cut up the paper into feathers and strung them on some white string. If Hadley were old enough to express her gratitude with more than just "Tay!" (Thanks!) we could have written out some things we are thankful for and added them to the garland too. :)


This year on Thanksgiving, I'm especially grateful to the Lord for some simple (huge) things.
a. this new life inside of me
b. new life in Christ
c. a steadfast, sweet, and smart husband
d. healing
e. food on our table and bodies that can enjoy it
f. a daughter to nurture and be my faithful little companion
g. a warm house and clothes on our backs
h. our car that got us to and fro throughout another year
i. family and friends to fellowship with
j. peaceful days
k. opportunities for growth
l. having enough, and then some

Thank you, Lord!



November 13, 2013
Disclaimer: As you guys can probably guess, I'm super interested in foodie stuff and do quite a bit of reading about nourishing and caring for our bodies. I wish I blogged about health & nutrition more, and will probably start doing some posts on these topics soon, because I usually get a few emails a week with questions about gut health, digestion, food issues, etc. But I struggle with how I want this information to be perceived via a blog post. I don't like to play doctor. I'm not an expert. I just like to learn. I don't want it to seem like I'm presenting my experience as the standard or my views as the ideal. I'd rather just feel free to share things here that have been helpful for me, with the hope that they may be helpful to someone else. Like we're chatting across the kitchen table. 

With that being said, here are a few supplements that have been beneficial in my life, in my family, in my body. And I'm willing to share them with you because I know you'll accept them as just that! 





Get ready for a long one, guys! It has taken me days to write this, that's why it's the first post this week. 


I've grown and changed a lot in the food realm since I was pregnant with Hadley. Throughout the past 2 1/2 years, I had to figure out how I was going to handle health issues that came up while nursing a baby and her tender little digestive system. I also learned quite a bit about my own body, like where my diet was lacking nutrients, or certain foods that were causing damage to my gut and how to recover from that damage. This essentially brings us up to the stretch of time that I spent on the GAPS diet to help with the healing process, which I will be writing another post about- very soon, I promise! I know some of you have been waiting patiently for a little more GAPS insight.

Basically, knowing what I know now, which is the extreme importance of gut health, I am so excited to be able to have another pregnancy, birth, and baby-- another try at everything! I'm excited to put my knowledge into practice. Not only do I feel like I can be ahead of the game this time, especially in the area of probiotics and fermented foods, but I also think once the baby is born, trouble shooting digestive issues will be less stressful.

When it comes to supplements, I don't go crazy. I try to get my nutrients from the food I eat. I like the way Hippocrates (Greek scientist and father of western medicine) put it: "Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food." Yes! Yay! But there are certain things that I've realized are either hard to obtain from food or hard for my body to absorb via the digestive system. Some of them are particularly important for my body/symptoms/deficiencies, and those are the things that for me, are worth buying in supplement form. Here are the ones I currently have and would recommend. Also, I should note that the title of this post is somewhat misleading, as 4 of the 5 supplements are still my favorites when I'm not pregnant. 

1. Organic 3 Gut Pro probiotic powder. I like to eat fermented foods/drinks because they tend to have a wider spectrum and larger volume of probiotic strains, but I do take this supplement as well. It's a convenient way to pack in an extra punch of beneficial bacteria. And, with another human being inside me, I can't get too much of those good guys right now. I like this probiotic in particular because it doesn't have any fillers, allergens, additives- no unnecessary ingredients. I've seen it's effectiveness in everyone in my family, and over time it ends up being one of the least expensive probiotics on the market. I take this first thing in the morning on an empty stomach.

2. New Chapter Perfect Prenatal Multivitamin. Last time I was pregnant, I just took the prenatal vitamin someone handed me at a clinic. I had no idea what was in it. This time, I was excited to pick out my own, because I knew what I wanted. I chose this one because it's made from whole, cultured foods, it's non-GMO, and it even has a blend of sprouted seeds in it- so it's extra digestible. Plus, it's available on Amazon Prime and it never bothers my stomach a bit. I take one tablet with each meal.

3. Ancient Minerals Magnesium Oil. After Hadley was born, I learned that I was very deficient in magnesium. For a great, great read on how crucial magnesium is, why it's so common to not get enough of it through our food and water, and what symptoms are related to magnesium deficiency, read this post by Cheeseslave. I love it. And I'm in love with magnesium!! I supplement with this magnesium oil, instead of a pill, because it's much more easily and efficiently absorbed via the skin (our largest organ) than the digestive system. Also, digestion changes a lot during pregnancy, which can make it even tougher to absorb magnesium from your food, multivitamins, etc. I use the oil almost daily, as I'm trying to correct my magnesium deficiency as much as I can before the baby comes, but I know that my pregnant body is currently using the bulk of nutrients I put in it and isn't able to store up much. I will still continue supplementing with magnesium oil after the baby is born. I chose this Ancient Minerals brand of magnesium oil because it's completely free of mercury, lead, arsenic, and fluoride. It works great and makes my skin so soft! There was a tingly-itchy feeling the first few times I used it, but that has gone away now. I spray it on my torso, arms, and thighs after I take a shower, leave it on for 20 minutes while I put in my contacts, dry my hair, etc, and then wipe it off with a warm cloth and put on some lotion. Make sure you moisturize the areas you put it on, because that will help with any dryness/itchiness.

On another- possibly hugely helpful- note, vitamin D and magnesium really helped tame my morning sickness! If you're interested in reading more about how morning sickness and magnesium are connected, check out this post by Wellness Mama or this post by Mommypotamus.

4. Green Pasture's Fermented Cod Liver Oil. Because I believe in healthy fats!! And I think cod liver oil is a healing superfood! I take this one because it's a fermented, raw, live food- it has not been heated. So, the life-giving nutrients (vitamins A and D, EFA/DHA, omegas) have not been destroyed by the manufacturing process. Along with magnesium, I was also deficient in vitamin D after Hadley's birth and throughout the first year of nursing, and cod liver oil is one of the best sources (after the sun- which I took full advantage of while pregnant this summer) for real, bioavailable vitamin D.

5. Naturally fermented sauerkraut -- not actually a supplement, but I think of it as something to "take" every day because it is such a nutrient-dense, probiotic and enzyme-rich, healing food. We make ours homemade, but I like this store-bought brand, too, because it's inexpensive and made using traditional methods, with only cabbage, water, and sea salt. We also like to make a sauerkraut salsa sometimes, which is a blend of cultured veggies and peppers that tastes really great with eggs for breakfast. Sauerkraut is high in B vitamins, also vitamins C and K, calcium, magnesium, fiber, folate, iron, potassium, copper, and manganese. (The fermentation process increases the bioavailability of nutrients making it more nutritious and digestible than plain cabbage.) Honestly, I care the most about the live probiotic strains that are present in sauerkraut. These will help me give the baby a good start in life- a healthy and balanced gut, strong digestion, and a tough immune system. I shoot for having a spoonful (if not more) of kraut with each meal.

Whew! There you have it: all the supplements I eat/take. And if you made it through all that- you are incredible and awesome. Thanks for reading! I hope some little tidbit somewhere in there will be helpful to someone. If you have questions, please feel free to ask or write me an email! Not that I know a lot, but I'd be happy to try to answer them from my experience.


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Blogged 2 years ago: Homemade Mayonnaise


November 5, 2013

During Hadley's pregnancy, I didn't buy any maternity pants. Being as pregnant as I am right this minute, I don't have a clue how that could have worked! I guess it was a different time of year, and I did have some maternity dresses/skirts, a pair of really stretchy jeans that were too big for me previously, and I wore a Be-Band from Target every day. This pregnancy, my baby bump was much bigger much earlier on, and I'm more interested in being cozy and less in love with the Be-Band, and I was determined to find some good maternity skinny jeans for less than $50.

Thankfully I had gotten some maternity shirts during my first pregnancy and quickly learned that Old Navy's online maternity section was my best bet for things that fit me and aren't ridiculously priced. So that was the only place I shopped this time, and because I bought during a sale, I was able to get not just one, but 3 pairs of jeans/pants for $50. I bought some black jeggings, some dark wash skinnies, and some black maternity leggings, and have been so grateful for each of them. They've become the essentials of my current wardrobe. Just pair one of those pants options with some inexpensive knee-high riding boots purchased with free shipping via Amazon Prime (I've been wearing them everywhere), and the longest shirt I can find, and you've got my daily uniform.

I've been happy enough with all of my new maternity pants to actually go and write a review for other online shoppers. (!!) They were just what I was looking for and fit so nicely, and I wanted to help other people know how to buy the right size-- which is always the headache in trying to buy maternity clothes! I rely heavily on the comment/review section when I'm purchasing clothes online, and always appreciate the helpful people who take the time to explain how things fit them and if the item is true to size. All that to say, if you're on the lookout for maternity basics and you don't like to spend big bucks or leave your house to shop, I would send you to old navy.com. What are your maternity wardrobe favorites? And how do you "make do" during those last 3/4 months? I love borrowing from my sister-in-law if we aren't pregnant at the same time, stealing from Grant's closet, and going through my mom's garage sale stuff!

P.S. Details on my outfit from yesterday's 30 week pregnancy update... I was wearing the dark wash skinny jeans, brown boots from amazon, and a thrifted Volcom sweater with a homemade scarf.


October 21, 2013
This weekend was a weekend for

the first cup of cocoa, wearing glasses and flannel, homemade goulash, visiting the brand new dollar store that opened in our teeny tiny town (and leaving with nothing), working on a presentation I'm going to make later this week, renting Mud, talking about baby names, taking baths, snacking on cinnamon toast, cleaning up the laundry piles in the bedroom, going over to Grandma & Grandpa's house for sunday dinner, buying boots, peanut butter banana oatmeal cookies, writing papers (Grant), cleaning up the email inbox (me), seeing the neighborhood leaves scooped up into giant orange jack-o-lantern trash bags, taking a gestational diabetes test, chopping up every veggie in my fridge to make a pot of chicken chili, and sorting 50 Promises on the living room floor while we watched Peyton Manning play the Colts.


I mentioned homemade goulash at the top of this post, and... I don't know how you feel about goulash. Maybe it was a meal that was on your school lunch menu growing up? I've heard some Minnesotans and Iowans say that was their experience, and it wasn't necessarily awesome. And I say, "Really?! Goulash was never a school thing for me." For me, goulash brings back sweet memories. It was a dinner table star. Mom made only once in awhile and I loved it. I can even remember requesting it. Goulash was something to be hugely looked forward to. And really, what's not to love? It's a humble skillet of beef, macaroni, and tomato sauce and it's oh-so-comforting and filling. You can kinda make it whatever you want it to be. And you can top it with monterey jack cheese or a dollop of sour cream. Mmm. Also, it gets better as leftovers. I've even heard some say that true goulash lovers like to make it fresh, cool it down, refrigerate it overnight to let all the flavors mingle, and then reheat and serve the following day. 

If goulash was a meal that you were none too excited about, maybe it's time to try it again. (I just learned that it's a Hungarian word. It means herdsman's stew. Fun! But today I'm not making a traditional Hungarian goulash, just good old Americanized goulash.) Here's my easy recipe, made with nourishing grass fed beef, sweet red bell pepper, and brown rice pasta. This way, it's gluten free! But it would be amazing with whole wheat elbow macaroni, too. My mom used to make her goulash with ketchup, but I've revamped her recipe a bit and used tomato paste, some apple cider vinegar, and a little maple syrup. It turned out so yummy. I kind of snacked on it all weekend long. I'm marking this dish as a freezer meal idea to make before the baby comes. 


Simple American Goulash

1 lb. elbow macaroni pasta (use brown rice pasta for gluten-free goulash)
1 lb. grass-fed ground beef
1 small onion, chopped
1/2 red bell pepper, chopped 
1 can organic tomato sauce
2 T. organic tomato paste
1-2 T. apple cider vinegar
2 T. maple syrup, raw sugar, or coconut sugar
salt and pepper to taste

In a large pot, cook pasta according to package directions. Preferably cook pasta al dente, this way the noodles won't be overly soft if you decide to re-heat the goulash for leftovers later. In a large cast iron skillet, brown the hamburger with with the onion and pepper, adding salt and pepper to taste. Add remaining ingredients to the skillet and stir until well combined and heated through. Add the cooked macaroni to the meat mixture and season with salt and pepper. Serve hot with shredded monterey jack or cheddar cheese for topping, or a dollop of sour cream. Makes great leftovers, and it's perfect for packing in school lunches. 


 What were your dinner requests as a little kid?
(I also used to ask for mini corn dogs, fried egg sandwiches, and pizza.)


October 15, 2013

Lately....
We're thinking about the cold days ahead (it's already so cold in our upstairs bedroom every night!) and bought another space heater. I need to start wearing more layers or our electric bill is going to be a sad one.
We're thinking about the newborn baby days ahead and... not really needing to buy anything yet. It's so nice!
Did you guys buy anything new for your 2nd baby that you wish you'd had the first time around?
The weather has been idyllic for fall: rainy, windy, gray. Perfect for lighting a candle and enjoying the great indoors.
I have a goal of drinking a gallon of water a day. 
Hadley and I are working on counting to 10. 
My twin sister was here for a visit. We put our babies to bed and sat at my table with our pregnant bellies, snacks, and talked until 1 am. It was just like old times. As we talked, I noticed we both played with our hair in the same old way. Twin things are my fave. 
Our baby maple tree is looking ridiculously ruby red.
Grant's going-back-to-school venture is off to a great start. Tuesday nights are class nights, and we're loving that he can do it all from home this time. 
I'm trying to think of more fun things for Hadley to do around the house. Making a fort, putting pennies into a piggy bank, putting away the dishes, taking baths for fun, helping me sweep, watercoloring, playing with play-doh... any ideas from your home? 
I'm in the mood for a donut.
I'm experiencing my first bout of round ligament pregnancy pain. It's killer. 
This curry is still our favorite dinner. And here is my favorite lunch.. super easy, and a perfect way to get warm and use up fall veggies. 


 Quinoa + Veggies Lunch Bowl

2 T. coconut or olive oil
1/2 red onion, thinly sliced
1 zucchini squash, thinly sliced
1/2 cup roasted cherry tomatoes
salt and pepper to taste
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 cups soaked and cooked quinoa*

In a large skillet, heat oil over medium high heat. Add onion and let cook, stirring occasionally, until caramelized. Add remaining veggies, season with salt and pepper, and sauté until soft. Add minced garlic and cook 1 minute more. Stir in cooked quinoa and toss with the veggies. Continue stirring until well combined and warmed through. Serve while steaming hot. Tailor this recipe to use up whatever vegetables you have on hand, and feel free to adjust the ratio of veggies to quinoa to suit you. 

*How to soak and cook a perfect pot of quinoa: Rinse 2 cups of uncooked quinoa under running water for at least 1 minute (it has a bitter coating). Add rinsed quinoa to a glass bowl and cover with 2 cups warm filtered water, or enough to cover it by 1/2 an inch. Stir in 2 T. of lemon juice, whey, kefir, or raw cider vinegar. Cover quinoa and let sit at room temperature for 8 to 12 hours. Drain and rinse well. Add quinoa to a pot, pour in enough water to cover by 1/2 an inch and bring to a boil. Turn heat down to low and let simmer 18 minutes, or until all the water is absorbed.

What makes this a really fast lunch for me is already having a bowl of cooked quinoa in my fridge, so I usually plan on having this the day after I make quinoa for some other meal. It would be so yummy topped with a fried egg!

What are you having for lunch lately?

October 3, 2013
Ahh! We're already an hour into Hadley's nap time and I'm still writing this, so I still haven't blogged yet! I keep wanting to post about this homemade apple cider that I made over a week ago, but everyday I get distracted. Take yesterday; I had two amazing friends over and their cutie pie babies and there was good conversation and my german chocolate cake... how could I get any blogging done with all of that awesomeness around? :) Today my distraction came in the form of Instagram, which, have I mentioned? I love it so much. Thanks to you guys who follow me over there. (@summerharms if you want to find me!) I actually owe IG for a lot of my 50 Promises orders. (thank you!!) Plus, I'm finding that it leads to me taking pictures that I actually go back and browse through like a scrapbook. And that, I can totally love. (I will never be a scrapbooker. It's just not in my make up.)

For those of you who don't have Instagram, here's my latest post from today:
 Tomato Soup + cheesy garlic bread from our lunch today. 
And I was tagged by the awesome Chrystal Smith (check out her new blog!) to share a few things that I was thinking about right now...
1. I hope those mushrooms in the fridge are still good. I need them for stroganoff tonight.
2. Why do I procrastinate cooking kale? (Braised kale from #thefamilyflavor is on the dinner menu tonight too)
3. Loving Mark Driscoll's new sermon series.
4. Excited for Parks & Rec tonight.
5. Harry Potter is the best soundtrack ever and I will play it everyday until I can start up the Christmas music.
6. Ready for a new book.
7. Wanting to buy a treadmill and a clean-burning candle for fall.
8. Wanting to post about homemade cider, but I keep getting distracted by IG...


But now, finally, for some apple cider. This isn't freshly pressed like a true cider should be, but it was actually made (not a bottle of apple juice with spices added). I'm talking I started out with whole apples and water. And they made something delish. Beautiful, clear, and rusty red. It was such a fun day. My house smelled like Christmas morning! It made over half a gallon of finished cider, so we've got plenty down in the freezer to thaw out when the Harms family reunites for our annual Deer Hunting Holiday. I'm a big fan of a crockpot of hot apple cider sitting out on the counter all day long when the whole family gets together. It's especially nice for the sisters and sisters-in-law who will be sitting and sipping and chatting and nursing babies all afternoon. Hooray for cider season. (and you know that I'm planning on saving some of that frozen cider for Christmas Day.)


Homemade Crockpot Apple Cider

10 large apples
(1 orange optional, but wait until the last hour to add it)
2 cinnamon sticks
2 Tablespoons mulling spices
1/4 cup maple syrup*
roughly 1 half gallon of filtered water

Chop apples and oranges into large chunks. Put apples, cinnamon sticks, spices, and maple syrup into a large crockpot (at least 7 or 8 quarts). Fill the crockpot with enough water to cover the apples, and put the lid on. Turn it on high for the first 3 hours, then stir and turn down to low, and let it go for another 4-6 hours. I stirred mine occasionally, because I was so excited and felt like babysitting it, you probably don't need to though. At the end of the cooking time, scoop cider mixture out of the crockpot with a 2 cup-glass measuring cup and pour scoop by scoop, pressing it through a fine strainer to separate the liquid from the fruit mash and peels. Serve hot, or let cool and store finished cider in the fridge for 3 or 4 days. You can also pour it into glass jars and freeze. (Just make sure to leave a couple inches of room at the top for expansion when it freezes.) Reheat on low or simmer to serve again later. 
My cider turned out pretty concentrated and not terribly sweet, so I've been adding a little water and a spoonful of maple syrup when I reheat a mug for myself. 

*Feel free to add up to 1 cup of sweetener. I prefer to have my cider less sweet and add a bit of maple syrup to individual cups as we serve it. 

cider after several hours of brewing time / finished cider 

What hot and spicy drinks are you enjoying this fall?

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Hello, I'm Summer. A people-loving introvert whose hope and life is in Jesus. His promises are my passion and my ministry is homelife. This blog is a place for me to write about everyday things. Especially food. My favorite thing to do is sit around a table, lingering over a long meal with good conversation. I live with my husband and our 2 littles. We like blizzards, thrifting, grammar, guacamole, cheerful hearts, nice manners, good movies, and making simple, real, nutrient-dense food.

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